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Finding Your Life Purpose

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How to find your life purpose? This poem points the way.

The Real Nature of Unconditional Love, and How to be Unconditional Love

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“Love unconditionally” – a high ideal. But it is vastly misunderstood, and thus rarely realized. Find what it means to love unconditionally, and the real secret that underlies it.

Veiling

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You can notice that, often, you get carried away in the unfolding experiences, without any awareness of the same. Why does this happen? Come and find why this veiling happens, and what this veil is, and its real nature. An excerpt from the book, “Awaken: An Experiential Exploration of Enlightenment.”

When Seeking Ends Before It Starts

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As a spiritual seeker, you no doubt seek answers to existential questions. You may even have a spiritual practice going on for years, and yet you may find that you are no closer to liberation, Enlightenment, now. This article presents a dialog between a prospective seeker and an awakened Master, where the person’s seeking ends even before it has fully started. Your seeking can end likewise. Come find out how!

The Secret of Longevity

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We live in a world where we talk of life extension, age-defying products, longevity and such, trying to extend life in form. Masters over the ages have pointed to real longevity. Find out what real longevity in this post.

Why to you react to others? How to stop reacting to others?

How to Stop Reacting to People

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Why do you react to others? You think it is others who are responsible because they push your buttons. But is that really the case? How to stop reacting to others? Find out two powerful ways to be free from reacting to others.

The Subtle Sickness of Seeking Appreciation

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You may be a spiritual practitioner for years. Still, do you notice the subtle undercurrent of seeking appreciation for all the good that you do? If so, you are still caught up in the drama of living as a separate-person. Find out how to be free from this subtle sickness of seeking appreciation.

The Importance of Trust

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You may be plagued with self-doubt, not just in the course of life, but in your spiritual practice as well. Learn about the importance of trust in your spiritual practice, and how to cultivate trust in authentic pointers to Reality.

Real Equanimity

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In the ebb and flow of life, can you remain calm and composed, with even temper, whether situations are good or bad? What is real equanimity?

Just What Is

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Truth is always present, here, now. It appears to be obscured by a veil. Surrender is the way of letting go of this sense of separation that veils Truth.